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Convincing Your Grandparents to Make Changes to Their Home

If you have grandparents who are struggling with illness or old age, it can be difficult to convince them that some changes in the house could benefit them. I have personal experience with this and after much debating, my almost ninety year old grandparents finally made some changes around the home which simply made their lives easier. I can’t imagine what it is like to be of that age, I imagine though that I too would be quite resistant to change, and stubborn with it. In spite of this however, I do feel that it is our responsibility as children and grand-children, that we do all that we can to make their lives easier, and here is how I suggest you could go about it.

Prices and Cost

Many think that the best course of action is to show the benefits of various aids around the home, before speaking about how much it will cost, for me however this is back to front. When you do this, your grandparents will have a surprise waiting for them at the end, as they will already have a figure in their head, whether it is a good or bad surprise is a risk which you have to run. For me the best bet is to decide how much we have to play with, what grants and support there may be available, and then look at what improvements can be made.

Showing the Benefits

If you are able to show your grandparents the benefits which this type of assistance can have, it will go some way in convincing them that they should make the change. For example after telling my granny that a stairlift could help in the home, I took her to a local conservative club which was fitted with one, she soon changed her mind after seeing how easy and smooth getting up and down stairs was. If you have the chance to show off the benefits first, take it with both hands.

Teaming Up

Your voice alone won’t be able to convince someone who is stubbornly against what you are offering, so it is important that you have the support of the full family behind you. This may feel as though you are bullying your grandparents but this is not the case at all, you are simply helping to convince them that they would benefit from these aids.

Only Helpful

When you begin this effort, make sure that you are only discussing things which will directly benefit their lives. For example my Grampy can no longer get in and out of a bathtub, but he can still take a shower, so getting him to invest in a walk-in bath makes little sense. Look at what areas they have difficulty with, and then focus solely on the aids and gadgets which can help them to live an easier and more comfortable life.

Whilst the journey can be tough, it will be well worth your efforts, and your grandparents will be able to reap the benefits from your actions, once you have convinced them of course!

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Could You Be the Next Crime Victim?

Being a victim of crime is something no one wants to be a part of.

That said are you doing everything within your power to lower the chances of being the next victim? If you are not, you could be setting yourself up for trouble.

With that in mind, what steps can you take to steer clear of being a crime victim?

Don’t Think It Can’t Happen to You

In your quest to steer clear of ending up a victim, your first step should be to understand that it can happen to anyone.

That said you want to avoid having the notion that you are immune to it. Even when you think you’ve taken all the right steps to avoid crime, it can still surprise you.

Among some of the crimes and how you can avoid them:

1. Identity theft – One of the more troublesome crimes, identity theft can strike at any time. With that being the case, you want to have an identity protection plan backing you up. Whether you look into LifeLock identity protection service or another brand, protect yourself. Such coverage will alert you to any red flags as you look to protect your finances. The most notable is someone without authority has tried to access your finances. Remember, one successful identity theft caper can have dire consequences for your finances.

2. Property theft – No matter the items involved, property theft is another crime you want to be aware of. With that in mind, you should make sure all your property has protection at all times. An example of this would be your vehicle. Are you someone who leaves their vehicle unlocked all or most of the times? If so, you are asking for trouble. Even if you lock your car or truck on a regular basis, do not leave valuables in it. Items like laptops, phones and significant money should never be in your vehicle. If you need to leave something of value in your vehicle for only a brief period of time, lock it in the trunk. At least this way it is out of the public view should someone come upon your vehicle.

3. Home invasion – Another crime to stay on top of would be a homeinvasion. In such a scenario, a criminal would break into your home whether you are there or not at the time. If you are, things could be even worse. To best protect your home, having a security system in place is a good start. If you do not have one now, go online and see which companies offer the best systems. You can check with friends to see which home security systems they recommend. Even with a security system in place, use some commonsense too. This means not leaving doors unlocked to start with. If you are going to be away for any extended period of time, be sure to have your mail/newspapers picked up. Also make sure your grass is trimmed and any snow is shoveled. Never give off signs that your home is sitting there without you around.

In your efforts to avoid being a crime victim, will you come out on top?

 

 

 

Office Rules To Boost Productivity

If you run an office then you will know only too well how the pace and quality of work seems to ebb and flow from day to day. Naturally you want the team to be firing on all cylinders as often as possible, so it is up to you to ensure that you have created an environment in which your staff can do just that. There are a great many office desk hacks which you can find online at places like https://www.businessbacker.com/ that will talk about how to get the best out of your staff.  We are going to look a little wider than that today and focus on rules which you should implement in the office, to ensure maximum productivity at all times.

Smart Planning

The first place to start is to look at the layout of the office, and think about whether or not it makes practical sense. For example if the printer is a heavily used item, but it is situated a 2 minute walk from most desks, think about how many minutes of work time you will be losing each day. Consider how the operation works in your office, and then move furniture and equipment around accordingly.

Cleaning Rule

It has been scientifically proven that physical clutter on desks and floors, leads to people being far less focussed and with low levels of concentration and organization. With this in mind there should certainly be a no clutter rule in the office, which everyone must follow.

Breaks

Aside from the usual breaks such as lunchtime and any short breaks in the afternoon, you should look to randomly give your staff 5 minutes here and there each day. It can be really easy for staff to get bogged down in their work, chained to the office desk all day, and they need respite. Pick random times when things are quite quiet, and call a 5 minute break where the staff must go out for fresh air. This may sound counter-productive but the renewed energy that your staff will have from a short, impromptu break, will reinvigorate them and help them to work better.

Exercise

More and more news is coming out that details the huge number of physical problems that office workers have, as a result of their job. To counter this, and to help increase their productivity and reduce sick days, you should encourage exercise in the work place. This doesn’t need to be something large, there are simple yoga techniques which can be done right from the office chair.

Penalties

Once you have put these rules in place, it is important that you have a penalty system for those who don’t follow them. This will be something aside from the disciplinary process, and it will have a bit more of a fun element to it. For example if someone receives 3 strikes for having clutter at their desk, they will be given some chores to do, or they will have to buy a cake for the office or perhaps even pick up someone else’s work. This penalty system will bring people together, and make your staff more focussed on the rules, and ultimately more productive.