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Do You Have a Date with Online Dating?

For countless singles, the idea of turning to the world of online dating even a decade or so ago was almost taboo.

Often, singles would go to bars, rely on friends to set them up, even place an ad in a newspaper or magazine.

Flash-forward years later and online dating has gained in popularity. What may have once been desperation has turned into a model of success for, eHarmony etc.

With that in mind, are you toying with the idea of tossing your hat into the world of online dating?

What You Need to Know

In the event you are considering opting for online dating, where do you start?

Although putting up your own profile is a first step, make sure you never overlook your own well-being.

There are occasions where using a background check for online dating makes sense.

As an example, what if the person you recently began talking to or even dating has a criminal past? While he or she may very well hope you never discover it, is it something you have a right to know?

Depending on the severity of any crimes, the answer is of course yes.

Differentiating between shoplifting and a sexual assault is quite important. By doing that background check, you are likely to discover info that could end up protecting you.

Protect Your Privacy

Even if you believe that you have met “the one” via online dating, don’t put all your cards on the table.

This is especially important as it relates to divulging your personal information.

Although early talks with prospects are discussing personal lives, don’t say too much. Among things you should keep to yourself until you feel comfortable (if so) around someone:

  • Where you live
  • Where you work
  • Any information about your children
  • Any information about your banking and other financial details
  • Your regular schedule i.e. when and where you go to the gym etc.

By protecting personal info until comfortable with someone, you watch out for yourself.

Be Honest About Your Expectations

If you do go through with a date or two, be realistic with the other individual.

It is only fair to them that you do not lead them on in any shape or manner. Stop for a moment and think, would like for someone to lead you on? Given the answer is likely no; the same is something to expect of you.

Do your best to be upfront. This is true if it means you will end up disappointing someone by saying you don’t think there is a true connection.

Given talking to someone online or by phone and meeting them is like a job interview, make sure you listen to them.

In the end, online dating may very well turn out to be one of the best decisions you ever made. That said also make sure it is the safest one possible.

Meeting the right person is the wish for countless singles.

Will your next online date be that one

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3 Tips for Making Money on the Side

Feel at times as if you do not have enough money coming in to keep you comfortable?

Well, if you have that feeling, you would not be alone.

Despite how hard many work, there’s not enough money to make them feel good about their situations. As such, they scratch and claw their way through their bills each month.

If you’ve gotten to the point where you need some more money coming in, what options do you have?

Get to Work on More Income

In doing all you can to bring in added income, consider these three tips:

1. More income at work – The most logical choice would be to see if you can get more income through your current job. Now, you may have some trepidation about going to your boss and asking for a raise. That said it is important that you are getting paid for what you are worth. When the time seems to be right, sit down with your boss and discuss your current compensation. If the answer to a raise is no, do not immediately move ahead with the mindset you need out of this job. It may be a case of the money is not there at the present time to give you more funds. If you like your job, it would not be wise to quit. This is especially true if you have nothing else lined up at the moment. Sit tight and see if you could find some other ways to get the extra cash you need.

2. Cutting down your debt – Are you in a position now where it seems like debt is coming at you from various angles? If so; you need to do your best to trim the debt where you can. First, look to see if credit card debt is choking you. In the event it is, you might want to find another card to transfer to with zero interest. If that does not work, talk to your current credit card company to see if they will work with you. Often, companies would rather work with a customer than lose them altogether. If you are spending too much money on gas for your car, entertainment and more, once again see if trimming is doable. Consumers will often discover that they have been wasting money on stuff they did not need.

3. Selling some items – Last, what about holding the occasional garage or yard sale? That is one way to not only make some extra money, but also clean out your home at the same time. If that is not something you want to do, you may opt to get cash for scrap metal. Instead of throwing such materials away, why not get paid for it? From an old car to other scrap metal, make some money off of the items you no longer need in your life.

When you’re sweating each month how you are going to get by, don’t you think it is time to do something about your situation?

Although many people are struggling to get by, you do not have to be one of them.

Take some time to think about your current finances and how you can better them.

When you do, you’re going to lose a little less sleep and have some more money in your wallet or purse.

Planning a Fun Family Day Out

When was the last time your family had a fun day out?

For many families, it can be hard to schedule quality time together.

With work, school and appointments, getting everyone together is not always easy.

That said you need quality time together as a family. Without it, the group can get caught up in their own business and tend to drift away over time.

So, are you planning a fun family day out?

Some Options on the Plate

In the event you want to have a fun day together, here are only a few of the options:

  1. Day at the beach – What family doesn’t enjoy a day at the beach? Sure, there may be one or more in your group who are not too keen on sitting in the sand and soaking up the rays for a day. That said there are many ways to make this day a fun one. First, get an umbrella or two so those not wanting direct sun have some cover. Second, take enough food to keep everyone happy. You also want to think about some sports like volleyball, throwing a Frisbee and more. Of course going to the beach also means hopping in the water to get your feet wet or taking a swim. Unless someone is adamant that they do not like the sun or being around crowds, the beach should be a great getaway.
  2. Whale watching – Take it a step further and think whale watching in Newport Beach or another spot. Whale watching can be both informative and fun at the same time. Getting to see these large mammals right in front of your eyes will give you a better education of how they live. As they migrate up and down the coast, you get quite an experience. When you have kids, look at the amazement in their eyes as they see these creatures up close for the first time.
  3. Heading out for a hike – There are not too many better ways to get exercise and have fun at the same time. Going out for a family hike is one of them. Pick a trail near your home or an hour or two away. Once there, map your course so you do not have trouble getting back to your starting point. Take water, a backpack with some first aid items, a comfortable pair of shoes, and of course sunscreen. If you are on a trail that offers plants, trees, animals and more, have your camera ready to snap different shots.
  4. Going to your local park – You may not have to travel too far to find fun and relaxation. If you haven’t up to now, check out your local park. Parks can be a great place to go to relax and forget about the daily grind for a few hours. From games to sitting there and taking in all the people watching, you will likely be back again for a visit.

No matter where you go as a family for the day, make sure you have fun and forget your troubles.