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Top five outfit ideas to wear to Gay Pride

It’s that time of the year again where we celebrate what it means to live and love with complete freedom. There are no stigmas that are attached when it comes to love. Whether you are heterosexual, homosexual, bi-sexual or anything else that is in between, Gay pride is the perfect occasion to show off who you are as a person. The real question is, what are you going to be wearing to gay pride to show off your true colours? Here are some of our own suggestions to get your creativity flowing so your outfit looks STUNNING for the parade. 

  1. RAINBOWS!

Of course, if you are going to pride you need to have some rainbows somewhere on your body. It doesn’t matter who you are, you could be a high-end lawyer, a homemaker or even one of the hottest Covent Gardens escorts in the entire world, love is love and the rainbow flag captures the freedom to express our sexualities perfectly.

So, you may be wondering how you can incorporate the rainbow flag into your outfit. Some people just choose to wear it around their necks as a cape or just have it tied around the waist as a sash. However, if you are feeling creative, and want to get your glam on, you can take the flag to a whole new level. Paint it on yourself, and don’t forget to add some sparkle spray to it. Heck, you could even use temporary dye to start colouring your hair into a rainbow pattern.

Now, everyone knows that Pride can be quite a boisterous event, so it’s important that you dress for the event. You need fabrics that are cool that give your body enough room to breathe. If you’re looking for a great way to remain cool, whilst also incorporating the flag into your look, why not buy a large rainbow tutu or some rainbow high-rise shorts. There are even trainers or sandals that incorporate the rainbow flag.

Basically, the sky is the limit when it comes to showing off the pride flag. Just try to think creatively and you will fit in perfectly. 

  1. Sparkles and Gemstones

Whether you’re in the parade or just want to stand at the sidelines, there is nothing wrong with adding a little extra glamour to your outfit. It’s going to be hot walking around all day admiring the events, so you need to make sure that your outfit not only sparkles like mad, but it makes you feel comfortable. If you’re feeling confident then why not just stick to a bikini that glitters with gemstones and sparkles. That way you can use it for dancing the night away.

Better yet, why not use the gemstone trend and stick them on your chest? Most of the gemstones come in multicolours and you can also get glitter roll-on sticks that you can use to sparkle up your body. Pride is about showing yourself off, so it’s a perfect time to show a little skin! Some paints even come in glitter forms, so feel free to add some up to bring a little sparkle to your pride look.

  1. Simple but Chic

Of course, you are also more than welcome to wear comfortable clothing on Pride. Lots of people will be dressing up, but it’s really more important that you just do whatever makes you feel happiest, especially if you do tend to feel a little shy at times. Don’t be scared to just turn up in jeans and a pride related t-shirt. Some people literally have gay slogans on their t-shirt or use their outfits to show support for their friends and loved ones. If you a gay or heterosexual ally of the community then feel free to express it. It’s important that you use pride as an event to stick up for the people you love and care about. As a heterosexual/ cis person then you should be ready to stand up and show that you support the community and the idea of autonomy of sexuality and love.

  1. Go skimpy!

If there is any time to show off a bit of flesh then now is the time. Lots of people go to Pride in a bikini and shorts, just their underwear or even in leather. This is to show that they are not ashamed of their bodies and to reinforce that love is love. It does not matter who they choose to give their bodies to. What matters is that they are happy. The main idea is to be flamboyant and to make the message of pride heard. If that means that you want to show off your skin then so be it. Just have fun! However, if you want to add an extra layer of sass to your look, a large fluffy jacket is the perfect thing to give you a touch of glamour. 

  1. Drag it up

Drag queens and faux queens alike. Now is the perfect time to be yourself. Whether you want to wear a rainbow-inspired ball gown or choose to sit in the parade in a giant cocktail dress, it’s time to let your creativity shine and DRAG. IT.UP. Bigger is always beautiful, darling. There’s it’s time to get out your makeup kit and give yourself a brand new look. Try to think of a theme and then have fun with it. Whether you want to be a pretty princess, a sci-fi warrior or just dress up as someone from your favourite LGBTQ+ anime, GO FOR IT!

What are you wearing for Pride?

At the end end of the day, it’s important to wear something that expresses who you are as a person. Don’t just hideaway. Use the festival as a way to allow yourself to shine and just let go. It’s a great day out and will bring you confidence that you may have never thought you had. Just make sure that you have an outfit that can express exactly who you are.

The laws of meetings: How to maximise your business efficiency

It doesn’t matter whether you’re in a large or small company; views on meetings are largely universal. They’re often overused, inefficient, and generally a waste of time.

Of course, there are plenty of exceptions, but in a nutshell, meeting dynamics across the world can be reformed.

Taking this into account, when it comes to your own company’s meetings, how should you approach matters? Should you go with the flow and “become one of them”, or should you challenge the norm and take matters into your own hands? Suffice to say, today’s post is on how to achieve the latter.

Tread carefully with recurrent meetings

The software companies gave themselves a huge pat on the back when they allowed recurrent meetings to be scheduled at the quick of a button. In truth, this is a worthwhile feature for many meetings – but not all.

After all, while you might build a case for a weekly performance meeting, many other recurrent ones aren’t perhaps needed.

Now, before you suggest that you can simply “play it by ear” and decide when you get to the meeting, this is one of the easiest mistakes to make. After all, by the time everyone has arrived and discussed the matter at hand, regardless of how briefly, valuable time has been eaten away.

The moral of the story? Carefully decide whether your recurrent meetings really need to be recurrent.

Get the agenda out there – and make it actionable

There’s nothing worse than being called into a meeting only to find that there is no structure or agenda. In these cases, it often leads to a free-for-all where people can talk about anything and everything, regardless of how important it actually is.

Of course, there will always be exceptions to the rule, but in general, an agenda is key. Not only does it give the meeting some much-needed structure, but it also allows you to assign actions to specific people. This, in turn, makes the meeting far more actionable and less of a time waster.

Stop people from going off on tangents

There’s always one person in every meeting that just can’t help themselves. They see the meeting as an opportunity to show off their knowledge, regardless of how relevant it is to the discussion.

While it’s important to allow some level of creativity, you also need to rein people in when they start to go off on tangents. After all, if everyone in the meeting starts to do this, it quickly descends into a free-for-all where nothing gets done.

Could a remote meeting do the trick?

It would be fair to say that we’re now well and truly in the age of remote meetings. Most of us are used to them now and like them due to how much time they can save us.

However, they don’t always work. This is particularly true if you want to impress new clients or perhaps need a whiteboarding session. In these instances, nothing quite beats the dynamics of a face-to-face affair. If you decide to go down this route, the obvious caveat is the knock-on effects. Whether booking that dreaded meeting room or ensuring your insurance obligations are up to scratch ahead of receiving external visitors, make sure you’re prepared for in-person meetings.

Keep it short and sweet

There’s no need to drag out meetings unnecessarily. If you can achieve everything you need to in 30 minutes, there’s no need to make it an hour-long affair.

How to Use Poker as a Mindfulness Practice

Most common mindfulness practices are fundamentally simple. Things like deep breathing, counted breaths, and short breaks and walks can help to calm us, clear our minds, and generate simultaneous states of relaxation and awareness. As much purpose as these small, simple practices have though, there are also some more involved activities that can assist with the development of greater mindfulness. And it may surprise some to learn that the game of poker is among them.

Gaming and Meditation

It is first important to understand that a link has been established between gaming and meditation in general. For a long time there were a lot of misconceptions about gaming as an active, almost violent practice meant solely for young people. But perceptions have changed over time. We now understand that people in all age groups play games of all kinds, and we further accept that a lot of these games have meditative qualities. Gamer testaments and a few scientific studies alike have indicated that the right game can have a soothing effect on one’s mental state.

This is the case with poker as well. A passion for many around the world, it’s a unique game that doesn’t necessarily fall under the umbrella of traditional “gaming” as we tend to think of the term. It is nonetheless similar with regard to mindfulness, however. Approached with intention, it can be a calming, almost meditative hobby for players.

Mental and Emotional Calm

When considering the game of poker specifically, one tends to think first of strategy, luck, and mathematics. In some sense, these are the building blocks of any given game of poker, and it will of course be important for any aspiring player to learn how they all factor in. However, what really helps successful players to win at poker is a sound mindset. The manifestation of a sound overall poker game requires that players learn to accept defeat and to avoid getting too high from a win. It demands reasonable approaches to betting and competition, clear-eyed social interaction, and the ability to operate without ego.

Add those factors up, and what success in poker really demands is mental and emotional calm. Players need skill and strategy to be sure, but above all else they need to be able to clear their minds of various pressures and shut out hasty impulses. This in and of itself is nearly a form of meditation, and certainly serves as a sort of training for mindfulness practice.

Focused Meditation

Beyond helping players to establish a general sense of mental and emotional calm, poker also leads to an ability to focus that, in its own way, is meditative. Generally, a focused meditation is described as the practice of focusing on something intently as a way of staying in the present moment and slowing down inner dialogue. It more or less means zeroing in on one subject to the exclusion of all else for the purpose of clearing one’s head — which is pretty much exactly what one has to do in poker! Even the slightest distraction can be a problem, and while the game demands a lot of attention it still makes for such narrow focus that one can clear one’s mind in a useful and soothing way.

Even given all of these benefits, poker does not comprise an entire mindfulness or meditation routine. For those interested in working on these aspects of personal wellness though, it’s always good to have one more option! Some will find this simple, popular card game to be legitimately beneficial.

If you enjoyed this article, you might also like our piece on how to boost your energy, especially useful as we enter a new year and search for fresh motivations!